Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry

Season 3

Aug. 20, 2021

Yelling At Our Kids: When its OK and When It's Not

Yelling, or even when kids perceive that we are yelling, is a part of most family communications. In this episode anxiety expert and therapist, Lynn Lyons, LICSW, talks about the things we need to pay attention to if and when …

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Aug. 13, 2021

Anxiety in Families: Is it Nature or Nurture?

Is anxiety genetic? Does it run in families? If your parents had anxiety or depression, what does that mean for you and your children? What approaches can we take to disrupt these generational cycles?

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Aug. 6, 2021

Not Talking About Anxiety Makes It Worse

One of the easiest mistakes we make when trying to deal without anxiety is to try get rid of the thing that makes us anxious. Anxiety expert Lynn Lyons explains why that isn't the goal but also why talking about …

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July 30, 2021

Find This Sweet Spot In Parenting Where There's Room For Mistakes

Even though parenting feels like walking a tight rope, it isn't. There's lots of room for your mistakes as long as you stay within the sweet spot of emotional management. Here's how.

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July 23, 2021

Global Language in Kids: How "Never" & "Always" Lead To Anxiety & Dep…

What is global language? Do you or your kids have a habit of using it? Why is it such a strong predictor of anxiety and depression? Here's what to do if your kid loves to drop "always" and "never" bombs.

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July 16, 2021

The Opposite of Anxiety isn't Certainty: A Tale of Two Toddlers

Parents love offering certainty to their kids. It feels very loving and nurturing. But the opposite of anxiety is not certainty. Hear what parents should focus on helping with instead, as soon as their kids can talk. It's the game …

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July 9, 2021

Take a Vacation From Mom Guilt

There's no time for mom guilt in a busy summer. Or ever.

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July 2, 2021

Why Anxiety Makes Us Overreact With Our Kids and How To Shift

In this short summer break, we talk about our reactions. Anxiety can make us overreact, so how do we shift?

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June 25, 2021

How Anxious Parents Give Too Much Information To Their Kids

Anxiety Expert Lynn Lyons offers some summer homework for anxious parents: stop giving your kids too much information. Learn what to do instead and why anxiety drives this habit.

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June 18, 2021

Summer Safety Traps for Anxious Parents

Summer’s here and parents are stressed. Hear Lynn talk about safety chatter, what it is, and why anxious parents do it. Our language matters so much. Lynn shares how to offer safety instructions to kids and teens that are practical …

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June 11, 2021

This Makes Anxiety Worse: What Not to Do to Help Your Kids

At the conclusion of Mental Health Awareness month, we weed through the bad advice that is so prevalent about anxiety that only makes it worse. We discuss the certain skills we must help our kids (and ourselves) develop to manage …

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June 4, 2021

Listeners Ask: Teens & Drinking and Anxiety vs. Intuition

In today’s episode Lynn answers two listener questions. First a mom discovers her 15 year old has been thinking of drinking to manage her stress. What are the conversations parents should be having with their teens around stress, substance abuse …

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May 28, 2021

OCD in Families: What it Is and Isn't

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is often missed or just misunderstood. What is OCD and what isn’t? How does it differ from really anxious thoughts? How is it treated? While it can show up at any point in life, some kids commonly …

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May 21, 2021

Dads, Depression, and Anxiety

So often the moms assume the role of supporting the family’s health and mental health, but dads have a critical role to play. What is that role? And how do you encourage your partner to step into that role? When …

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May 14, 2021

Summer Camp & Separation Anxiety

After an atypical year of intense togetherness with our kids, parents may be out of practice being apart from their kids. Today we talk about the separation anxiety parents feel around summer camp, because it really is harder on us …

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May 7, 2021

The Anxious Parent: When It's One of You or Both of You

The Anxious Parent: Most families have one, some families have two. But what important role does a non-anxious parent play? How do worry and control often dictate parenting dynamics that put stress on a relationship? How can you tell if …

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April 30, 2021

The Real Truth About Phobias and How To Manage Them

Emetaphobia, Astraphobia, Autophobia. Some kids became afraid of a variety of things: throwing up, needles, dogs, thunderstorms, the dark. As parents we want to help, we want to make our kids feels safe and comfortable. We want to address the …

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April 23, 2021

Social Anxiety Or Social Awkwardness: What's Normal?

Do you or your child have Social Anxiety or are we now pathologizing shyness, too? Learn the different between real signs of social anxiety or just a more introverted temperament. What skills do we need to teach our kids to …

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April 16, 2021

What every parent should understand about the college admissions race

In honor of May 1st's deadline for many college-bound seniors to make their choice, Lynn shares advice from her perspective over the last few decades of watching her adolescent clients go to college and struggle with anxiety. For parents, how …

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April 9, 2021

Panic Attacks Vs. Anxiety Attacks: What's the Difference?

Panic Attacks. While they are incredibly common, they are often mislabeled and misunderstood. Teenagers, even adults, will casually throw the label around.What’s the difference between those really powerful moments of anxiety and a panic attack?How do you help your family …

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April 2, 2021

Let Your Kids Fail; Don't Let Your Kids Drown: Teens & Homework Coach…

Mistakes and Failures can be some of life’s best teachers. When it comes to letting our kids fail, how do we know the difference between letting them fail and letting them drown? What do you do if your teenager hasn’t …

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March 26, 2021

When Your Teen's Friends Are In Crisis: A Guide To Building Healthy B…

At some point one of your children’s friends will be in crisis. How do you help your teens help their friends? How do you teach them to develop boundaries with those friends? When your child shares that a friend is …

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March 19, 2021

School Anxiety: How To Help Our Kids & Teens

Many families are feeling anxious about changes to their school routine, both kids and parents. How do we support our kids and teens and help them manage their worry about going back to school? And when does this worry become …

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